He was blind-sided again

I made the dreaded call to tell the crazy man that his eldest daughter did not want to see him during his designated vacation week. He was, of course, blown away, didn't see it coming, and very confused; all standard for him since he has trouble paying attention. He insisted on seeing her immediately, completely disrespecting the issue that she did not want to see him. After a second heated discussion later in the day in which I was, expectedly, accused on 'putting her up to this' I found myself repeating "I don't know how you got to this place where your child doesn't want to see you" but to no avail, he refused to take any responsibility (also predictable). She ended up calling him, hoping that he would be open to listening but instead she got "what, are you severing all ties with me?" Poor thing just wanted a few extra days to get back in her body, nothing so final as severing all ties.